This post is inspired by my sister-in-law, who emailed me a specific question about motherhood.

This sister-in-law is married and wants to have children someday, but feels conflicted for many reasons. I can understand her confusion when so many moms, including myself, report that: ‘it was the best of times, and it was the worst of times.’ Who wouldn’t think twice? It is a life-changing decision.

The following is her question:

“I’m currently not exactly “eager” to have a baby. I’m a little
paranoid about the economic crisis, especially with my being the major
breadwinner right now and school still ahead of us. Obviously, it will
take a lot of praying and soul-searching to find. Hey, I could be a
mom - but, I was curious if you have any insights on motherhood -
like, how your life changed (for the better, I presume), the
challenges kids brought and how you faced them, and how you feel about
being a mom… My question is pretty vague, I know; I’m just curious
3about your thoughts.”

I started writing my answer, and I realized that she probably needed more than just my perspective. So I sent out a survey about motherhood to some friends and family and will be posting the responses here and there.

The following post is the response of the wife of one of Cal’s favorite mission companions. I hope you enjoy her responses as much as I did.

My Thoughts on Motherhood…

by Julie Lemke

1. Why did you decide to become a mom? Did pressure or guilt play a role in your decision to become a mom? How did you deal with it?

I’ve always wanted to be a mom. I also wanted to go to law school & had already done well on the Law School Admissions Test when I became engaged [Read more →]

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